Sometimes the path to rediscovery, commands you to let go of the familiar and step foot in the most excruciating ,but gradually rewarding, facets of life.
Leaving your comfort zone is always a good way to establish success, regardless of the fact that it can be unbearable. It’s mindless to expect changes to come, without implementing any new habits and setting goals that act as a roadmap to your life.
How do you expect to be wealthy when your social circle consists of pessimists who degrade you and are not receptive of your money mindset.?
How do you expect to start a business when you spend time with people who believe in slaving on 9-5 job their entire life? Elevating your standards entails spending time with people of the status you wish to be in, learning from them and closely watching their habits.
Reading successful people’s memoirs and biographies is also recommended and for those of you who don’t like reading, you can’t make excuses because you can listen to audiobooks or podcasts, as a substitute to reading. Fortunately for us, we live in a time where information is readily available and not being financially independent is a choice.
To discover yourself, you have to be willing to completely die to any form of yourself that you have been, in order to give birth to the new version of yourself. You need to let go of everything and anyone you know, and give yourself time to meditate, and find yourself again. At the end of the day, life is all about you as an individual, first before anyone else. Being happy, and crafting the best life of your dreams must always be a priority.
At times, the reason why we don’t make it in life is because the doorway to our success story only fits one person, and that is you, and yet you are trying to fit the whole family clan or the neighborhood, in a door that’s only meant to fit you. You can not rescue everyone and tag them along on your road to success, you have to be willing to leave then behind, rediscover yourself and come back for them when you are established. Don’t get me wrong family and friends are important, but you need to make sacrifices, just to have time alone to build your legacy.
This doesn’t have to mean going away in the literal sense, but if you live with family, set aside time for yourself to take a walk, meditate or any do anything alone, that rejuvenates your mind. 10 minutes of your day is enough for goal setting and mapping your way through life.
A genius without a road map will get lost in any country but an average person with a road map will find their way to any destination. It’s toxic to live life without daily, weekly, monthly and yearly goals. Unfortunately, that’s how most of us live, we just go where the wind blows. I used to be like that too, until I discovered the fulfilment that comes with daily routines. You need to create a morning routine and daily tasks that you wish to accomplish on a daily basis. The reason why we get depressed is that we have a lack of purpose and zeal for life, because we don’t have anything exciting to do during the day, besides laying around watching Netflix, eating all day on the couch, then later, we wonder how we got fat.
Life is a gift that we are suppose to enjoy and be happy everyday. Be cautious of your daily habits and institute changes that lead to be a better ,happier and healthier life. Don’t let boredom be your companion, find ways to stay motivated. There is so much we can do to stay motivated such as listed in the insert.
There are so many things that you can do while on your journey to changing your habits for the better, and they don’t even require any money, just your commitment to get out of bed and implement them into your daily tasks.
As the heading suggests, if you want to fly like an eagle, discard the chicken in your life, and that can imply, the trauma that you have experienced in the past, the negative comments people have spoken on your life that keep haunting you, an unhealthy relationship that you need to run from immediately, toxic friends, unhealthy eating habits, addictions, succumbing to luxury inflation when it’s above your earnings…..the list is endless.
It’s time to pursue your goals, even it means going against those close to you, and relocating to have time alone. You don’t own anyone an explanation regarding your happiness. Wake up everyday with gratitude and a smile on your face, a planned productive day with set daily tasks and go to bed feeling fulfilled because you will be living life in a way that pleases you.
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